Ask wife for blowjob

I'm not telling you it's going to be easy. That is how you play it cool. Find new interests and hobbies -- personal growth, friends, travel that feels "comfortable" and right to you. It represents love, acceptance, togetherness and bonding. Yes, I schedule things around football and you should too. If you tell her then it won't be a surprise seeing as you had to tell her.

If he asked, that would be weird. Any other threads may be deleted. Feel like that 15year old nerd. You have to feel out your wife, I think, and see what happens when you approach her in different ways. Get out of bed, near the bed, you standing.

He doesn't grab my head but he can be pretty aggressive. Move her head until you penis is inside her mouth pleasing you. We were young, but I never verbally asked again , found different ways. He might tell me he wants my mouth wrapped around him. If it doesn't happen, then don't get bent out of shape as that just reinforces or starts to create an aversion in your wife to the act.

From the posts here, it looks like middle-age men asking the question. If that's the case, I'm not sure anyone can help. If you are not prepared for that, don't get married. You need to try to gently re-educate her in a nice way on this. He used to court me and compliment me and make me feel sexy and desired. Ask her to list out 5 things that would bring more intimacy and connection back. If she did it when you first hooked up and she does not do it now, that is "Bait and Switch".